How to Stop Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Lovers
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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Expert , writes… …
“I frequently tend to attract a partner who is emotionally unavailable. What should I do to alter that”? This is a question that was asked by one of my clients. Interestingly, that was the main complaint I recurred from my long string of failed relationships. They were either emotionally inept, lived out of town or traveled all the time.
When you continue attracting unavailable lovers, my question to you is, “Is something in you that is afraid to commit, or afraid to be truly open in a love relationship”? That may be difficult to take in right now, but that is what I have found to be the situation most of the time.
As a relationship life coach, I provide Relationship Life Coaching for Women. I also suggest that you get very clear about what you want. Get clear by making a list of the qualities you want in your perfect match.
You make the list for yourself so you can get clear concerning what it is you really want. You’ll start to see where any weaknesses are in yourself as you create the list. You will see where you need to go to work on your level of expectation or belief in the likelihood of receiving what you are desiring.
To bring out the state of feeling happy expectation, next ask yourself the question “Why do I want this”? It’s time to engage your imagination. When you answer this question, imagine all the fun things you’ll do with your attracted mate. Think of grinning, holding hands, and introducing him to your girlfriends. Think of what it will be like to be with someone who is romantic and loves to bring you a bouquet.
You create the list for yourself, and the Universe recognizes your clarity – the undiluted intention and unresisted desire!
Many of us have been told as a child to accept what you get, it’s not kosher to ask for favors, why can you not just be happy with what you have? – kind of like brainwashing. I say you ask for it all and continue creating yourself into the alignment of your desires.
