Environment and Business Coaching for Success
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Have a look around you, what do your surroundings say to you? Are the things in and happening in the environment around you ones that cause you to smile and be happy with the world? Or do they bring you feelings of depression and being stressed out over the things occuring in your life and what you currently have? It is incredibly common for people to look at the things around them, at the things they are doing and to feel discontent. Think of the people you spend time with, your friends and your family, how happy are they with their lives, how positive or negative is their outlook? And if you really think the outlook they take is positive, take a deeper look, what are they drawing to them that gives cause for them to be happy each day, are they truly positive or do they mask negative undercurrents?
Your environment contains a mass of information about you as you well know, have a look at it, what do you think that other people would think about what they see? On that note, what do you think about it looking in on yourself? Everyone sees a variety of differing things in the world surrounding them and everyone has a different way to interpret the meaning of these things. The mind operates on various levels, two of which we’re looking at here, the first is the conscious and the second is the unconscious. The conscious is the level where you actively visualise, think about things and communicate on a verbal level. The unconscious is where your core beliefs and feelings mold your perceptions of the world you have around you. Your unconscious also does other things, when you move a muscle it controls that movement, your conscious mind would find it difficult to shift your arm due to all the individual tendons and fibres needing coordination, whereas your unconscious can easily manage all the neurons required to operate the muscles with very little effort. The conscious mind works with approximately seven plus or minus two chunks of information at a time in comparison to the unconscious mind which works with aproximately 134 chunks. Taking a different direction, you have around two million bits of information per second coming in through your senses, if all of that came straight to your conscious mind it would be totally overwhelming. So your unconscious filters information for you based on what is a priority, and takes into account your belief structures and previous experiences, it deletes, distorts and generalises what’s happening accordingly. Yes it does delete information, are you constantly kept aware of being able to feel your right shoe on your foot through the day? Most likely not because you’ve no need to be, so the information’s deleted, unless the shoe causes pain in which case it highlights that feeling. So your mind shapes the appearance of the world around you, what you pay attention to and also what draws your attention. Knowing this how do you now feel about the things occuring around you and the light in which you’ve been viewing them, about how the people around you have been behaving toward you? Does it yield you reason for celebration? If this is so then you’re part of a small niche of the population!
When you look at the world around you if you are anything other than happy with it then I’m sure you agree that something needs to change right? Right! For sure gaining high levels of Success in negative environments is very difficult. So what can you do? People often go and change their career, partner, friends and almost their entire lives in cases. Are these the most effective things to change though? With some situations yes, with the majority tweaks required though a more fundamental change is required. As you are now aware your unconscious mind shapes your experiences of the things going on around you, it does this by drawing on your experiences and belief system. So can your experiences and belief system tarnish the world you live in now and the level to which you enjoy it? Certainly, they have a huge impact on your levels of Achievement! While looking at your world through rose tinted glasses the world looks rosy, by that virtue with glasses affected by bad experience, communication that’s poor, negative emotion and malcontent then those would be the things you see and have greatest attention on as they will be the ones your mind identifies most strongly with. Taking it further, if you are shaping your view of the world in then how do you think other people are shaping their world and viewing you? If you see them through a haze of mistrust and caution then do you feel there is a possibility they see you in the same way? Likely they are as your thoughts will alter the way they behave. How Business Coaching changes your Environment and Success? Start altering the way you think is a good place. Through Business Coaching or change work, using techniques such as NLP and Timeline Therapy® you can very rapidly change the way you experience the world, and as a result massively change the results you get from the world you live in. Everyone gets where they are in life because of the Mindset they have, changing your Mindset changes your world, so if you’re going to change it then why not make it the best and most positive world possible. After all enjoying life is great. So make a decision to have the best possible Mindset you can for the Success and life you want, then take action to ensure it happens, to find out more about how Business Coaching can improve your Success contact me via www.frostneurolinguistics.com/contact
