Your number 1 desire right now is (probably) to get your ex back. Or maybe you want to know what you need to do to get back together. Do you know that time is very important here; you can’t afford to waste it.

Why time is critical

Whether you are aware or not, the fact is your ex could be thinking about a new partner right about now. I know it may sound harsh but that’s the reality of it. Many people have the ability to get over a breakup very quickly and move on.

Don’t waste a moment longer worrying about how you feel. You won’t get anywhere doing this and could lose your ex for ever. If you want to get back together then waste no time and get yourself a game plan.

If you took the split pretty hard then by all means take a few days to get your head together. You really don’t want to see your ex and lose your temper. That maybe would be the end of things for ever.

What you should be doing

Again, if you took the breakup particularly personal. Definitely take a few days to get into a better emotional shape. In the meantime you can consider your plan to get your ex back.

You may be skeptical here but you can get a full system on the web. Systems that will hold your hand from day 1, right through to (hopefully) a happy ending. They will even show you how to easily get your head into shape during the next day or two.

You get full instructions on how to get back in touch (safely) with your ex. There’s a section on psychological mind games that will show you how to control every situation with your ex. You could spend ages collecting this information bit by bit.

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…Make the choice to get them back, don’t leave it to chance.

The art of manifestation is your ability to effectively bring about a positive change to happen in your life. It can be anything from your health, your wealth, your spirituality or a great number of any other desires. We can even manifest negative things in our lives, such as poverty, illness, depression and a whole host of negative things. Now I don’t think that everything that happens in our lives are a result of our manifestations but there are certainly things that we have influenced and are a direct result of our thoughts. Most of the time this happens on an unconscious level and we aren’t even aware that we are unconsciously manifesting our heart’s desire.

Your personal development is dependent on you ability to maintain focus.

What is it that you are focusing on? What thoughts do you have running through your head everyday? What controls have you implemented in your thought process? These are questions you must ask yourself before you can begin to manifest your heart’s desire. Suffice it to say that your negative thoughts will bear you negative fruit. Positive thoughts breed positive results. I know you have heard this before and I know you understand this on an intellectual level, but do you really understand this on an emotional level? This moment was as close to an epiphany as you can get. I understood this with all my heart and soul. Do you get it to the point that you are willing to take the time to observe and change the way you think? Or will you continue to go about your life doing the same things over and over and hoping your life will change? That isn’t going to give you the best opportunity to manifest your desires.

Is your manifesting on life support? Then you need CPR

If you find that your manifesting and heart’s desires are lacking then read on.

Do you secretly resent people that have the things that you want to have in your life? Are you jealous of these people that have what you want? Yes, this is negative thinking. Instead of resenting these people learn from them. Do you think they got the things they have by telling themselves that they can’t get them? No they got these things by focusing on them in a positive and reflective way. They were able to choose what they needed. Then they were able to project their thoughts emotionally. Know what? They received that desire.

You can attract your desires if you begin to reflect and project. Seriously consider what it is that you want and then project that desire using positive affirmations. Each time a thought comes into your head ask yourself “is this thought empowering or destructive to me”. Begin your new life today by using this easy exercise, which will help you change the negative course your life has taken.

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Advisor , writes… …

We think over 60,000 thoughts per day. James in Ohio wants to know: “How do I maintain my focus”?

James, I believe this is a question that is multi-faceted in nature and a very good one at that. Did you know that learning how to navigate with the Law of Attraction from Group Coaching classes teaches you more skills than you can learn from private coaching? The reason is largely because of the group coaching class synergy that is built by the consensus of intentions.

I’ll return the answer with the question “What takes you off focus”? Truly, if we could send out an intention and leave it at that, with no contradictory energy, thoughts, or beliefs, we’d all be manifesting in very short order. So I’m going to take the approach that this is a question of contradicted energy, thoughts or beliefs. Intentionality that gets created in a group coaching class setting will support you in maintaining your focus. The law of attraction says that what you place your attention on expands in your life experience.

As far as fulfillment of your desires, it’s not so much a matter of focus that causes the delay. It’s the matter of focusing on what we want and then splitting your intention. And the matter of why you’re dropping your focus is critical. You could be dropping your focus because you have doubts and fears. You could be losing focus because something from your past is occupying your energy, or perhaps that you’re not clear about what you want.

In all of these cases and even if you’re not clear on which one instance is at play here, if you make it your dominant intent to feel as good as you can as much of the time as possible, your desire will manifest quickly. When you feel good you give a clear signal to the Universe to match more of that. Feeling good is the high vibration that transmits to the Universe that you’re a match to your desires. Practice that regularly and you’ll have it all.

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Coach , writes… …

Nora from the UK is curious: “In my love relationship, do I get to ask for exactly what I want”? Advice about relationships can be varied. The Law of Attraction, however, is based on a universal law. You can get a head start with free video I offer on relationship advice and the law of attraction.

You know Nora, I can see why you’d want a specific person because what you see in the one you have in mind gives you a lot of pleasure. You love the qualities they have. You love what you see in their heart. Maybe you think they embody all the qualities you want in a mate. Let me ask you this question, “If you could have everything you want in this particular one and more, would it matter if it’s that particular person”? It’s possible that some qualities in this one may be lacking or missing from your true ideal partner. Sure it’s possible.

Having said that, what about your tailor made, utterly delightful and delicious love of your dreams? I couldn’t be more serious. I wish I could express to you how utterly surprised, delighted and overjoyed at all that I got in the love of MY dreams. I actually got more than what I asked for. Much more! Lots of people ask me how they can get the Ex- back. I say “why bother when you can have someone who adores you and whom you adore back?”

I always encourage people to get specific and go for it all. Don’t be stingy with yourself. The Universe has the capability of giving you everything your heart desires. It’s always important to tag on to the list “This or something better.” You see, we have rather limited imaginations at times and the Universe will knock itself out trying to satisfy our every desire. If we only ask!

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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Best Selling Author , writes… …

Sara from England asks: “Can Law of Attraction Coaching help me stay positive, expectant and hopeful while I’m attracting my ideal love relationship?~When imagining my dream relationship, how do I keep the faith? Can a Law of Attraction Coach be helpful?~I’m having trouble staying positive while I’m waiting for Mr. Right. Can Relationship Coaching and the Law of Attraction help?”

As a law of attraction relationship coach, I get asked questions like these a lot. We all need to work staying positive when manifesting any desire. Attracing a love relationship can be even more tricky since there’s so much insecurity wrapped up around intimacy. Realize that by definition, a desire is a state of being that one experiences when you’ve noticed a absence of a thing. That is to say, if you had it – the relationship, or anything you want – you wouldn’t desire it because you’d already have it. That being said, it’s very easy to be pointed in the direction of lack when wanting anything. All the more reason know about your emotions and the role they play in keep your vibration in the high range of expectancy and trust.

Our emotions are there to serve us as guidance. There’s a lot of power of our emotions.

At times, our emotions can feel very strong and unpleasant. Most of us were trained to behave and smile. When in fact that was the way we expressed ourselves. We didn’t have access to the range of self-expression we needed. For most of us our parents and teachers were not in the position to patiently explain the necessary coping skills so we either acted out and got punished or were told to stuff it.

As a law of attraction relationship coach, I teach you about your emotions as a kind of GPS system, as an indicator of whether you’re happily expecting your desire to manifest, or whether you’re looking at the lack of what you want. Your emotions are what transmits to the Universe. So it’s very important to tune in to what’s going on in your emotions.

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