Confidence and Creating A Relationship

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Advisor , writes… …

Life Coaching for people with self-confidence or self-esteem problems is extremely helpful in answering this following question. Women seem to suffer mostly from self-esteem, abandonment and lack of feelings of being worthy problems. Life Coaching for Women is one way to solve this issue in relationship coaching. Anita asks: “Are some people just destined to be lonely forever”? Anita, considering the fact that you responded to our survey about relationships and the Law of Attraction, I’m going to assume you have been thinking about finding a relationship for you. There are many who choose to stay away from intimate relationships. And that need not be the case for a person who has stopped after they have continuously failed in the past. Nothing at all is wrong with preferring to be without a serious relationship. Your life can be fulfilled and wonderful with any choice you end up with.

As long as you know you’re choosing that instead of giving up out of frustration that you haven’t created the love of a lifetime. You can acquire it all in a relationship and in life.

If you could view yourself from the point of view of Source or your Inner Being, or Higher Self, you would see a beautiful, magnificent, illuminated, connected entity. Then life starts to happen around us. Our well-meaning parents, teachers, and elders, in an attempt to guide us, tell us from birth what to watch out for, warn us, caution us, and try to protect us, effectively having us listen to their fears and insecurities instead of tuning in to our own guidance. OK, I will give you as brand new creatures we do need protection. Fine. But soon following they learn to function by themselves, self-actualization should be part of the training for the little ones.

Well-meaning guides desire to do the correct thing so they guide, caution, admonish, and scare young ones to make them behave. This only underscores an underlying insecurity and inability. The sensation of not-enoughness gets engraved at an early age.

Neurological research now tells us that until the age of 7, we are so open and receptive, we have no filtering ability at all. We walk around in a kind of hypnagogic trance and become amazed with whatever happens to enter our life experience. It is not a wonder we have deeply ingrained, although misguided, beliefs about an imperfect nature. By the time we’re 6 years old, we’ve listened to the word “NO” approximately 60,000 times. Look out for that, that could hurt you, be careful, don’t drop that. The subliminal message is you are unworthy, you cannot trust you, you do not know what you are doing, and so on.

Our parents and elders were certainly well-meaning. They only wanted our well-being. But you can see how simply we’ve been trained away from our innate beauty and brilliance.

I suggest that you go easy with yourself and let yourself have a chance. Firstly, it is not your fault. It is not even the fault of your elders. They were programmed the same way as well. You can end this prevalence of lower sense of self-worth on yourself and everyone you know. You deserve to have everything you wants.

Do your very best to lavish yourself appreciation and self-acceptance. Adhere to yourself as you would a beloved child. Forgive her for her shortcomings. The reality is, the Universe adores, Spirit adores you, and your Inner Being adores you. Why? Because you ARE adorable. And that IS the reality!

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Coaching for Singles: Find a Relationship with the Law of Attraction

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Nanette Geiger, Relationship Advisor , writes… …

People who are single who want to appreciate the Law of Attraction to find love often ask me for advice. They wonder, “Can you attract the wrong relationship?” The answer to that is Yes and No. I will elaborate. You create the “Wrong” relationship based on what it is you project you desire. In other words, your words are saying “I want someone who is fun, caring, and passionate. Someone who treats me well” but your real subconscious intention is something more to the tune of … “I can never get the right woman. Why do my friends get such a simple route? What am I doing wrong? Where are all of the eligible right for me women? And so on. So you are going to be attracting more about what you are thinking and expecting. So is she wrong? Perhaps, is your thinking wrong? The Law of Attraction says what you focus on you get more of. So if you’re not in a relationship and are searching for a love, you must focus on what it is like to be in a love relationship, not the other way around.

A fantastic practice to improve your inherent desires on this is by wielding a strong tool that Abraham-Hicks coaches called Book of Positive Aspects. This is a powerful tool for creating a Love with the Law of Attraction.

You can use this tool when you find you create some negative emotion and need to continue changing the direction of your vibration and find a more harmonious feeling mindset. When you want to strengthen your threshold of creation since you have got a lot of negative vibrations. Here is how it works: you should do this by hand to help acquire the hang of it. I truly suggest that you always write a Book of Positive Aspects. You’ll desire to give yourself at least 15 minutes for this exercise.

At the top of the paper put down the area of what you desire a better energy set point on. Maybe a subject has caught your attention that you do not desire, you would rather not experience it, or perhaps you have acquired a good bit of judgment about this subject and resent yourself for it. Write down what that is. Now see that you know what you don’t want and the comparison has aided you to hone the intention of what you actually want. Your job is to put down a detailed the intentions you want. And keep turning your attention to the better feeling thought. Write lists of what you like about what IS functioning, what is good, what you have that you DO like, even about the present life situation. Search for aspects of your life to be appreciative of in the situation and in any outside or related situation. This will point you to the positive attraction mode. You’ll create what you want rather than its opposite. Try it out for yourself. What do you have to lose?

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I always attract the wrong type. What Law of Attraction Dating Advice Can I Use to Find a Guy Who Will Commit?

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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Coach , writes… …

You have arrived at the perfect place for Law of Attraction relationship and dating advice. This is what I call a great question. Arline, a woman from Brazil,, says she continues creating guys who won’t commit. Arline desires to know how she can change these relationship patterns. It is obvious to see that Arline is taking responsibility for this recurrence. I find that there is so much power in applying responsibility for what’s happening in your existence. That is a huge bound in the purposeful creating process. I understand precisely how that is, because that was my act of creation previous to when I attracted my giant relationship breakthrough. I kept attracting men who were afraid of commitment. What I did not realize was that I was sending out unclear messages. It is fantastic how we can say we desire one thing and yet send out a message that tells just the exact opposite.

You want to go out with someone who’s committed to the relationship. You do not want to be afraid and be curious of if he’s feeling good if you are the only one who’s really committed. The sense of insecurity in the relationship sends further messages of uncertainty. Using Law of Attraction Dating will just send back to you even more of the exact wavelength. You should desire to harness this vibration by attracting what it feels like to feel right in your love. Do you know what it feel like to know you’re worthy of being adored? Work with the vibration of how wonderful that is and you will be communicating to the Universe a different intention entirely.

We are all incredible attractors and we want to realize how to get more of what we want in your life and love. I coach some very powerful tools in changing your point of creation, called Shifting Focus. You will learn about this and much more in my FREE Video The #1 Secret to Finding and Keeping the Love of Your Dreams. Get powerful Law of Attraction Relationship and Dating Advice.

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Is Low Self-Esteem a Stopper to Attracting a Lasting Love Relationship? Life Coaching using the Law of Attraction Can Solve Your Worthiness Issues

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A woman named Janice from Colorado contacted me with a common problem concerning keeping a love relationship in her life. Janice is troubled and feeling unworthy of love and is curious of the answer to the question: “How do I begin to feel capable of a soul mate relationship”? Getting help from a Law of Attraction Life coach can be the answer.

I appreciate the strength it took to ask your question Janice. It can be difficult for most of us to even admit that we have trouble with feelings of worthiness. So I congratulate you for being aware of that misalignment of energy. I say misalignment because it’s not in harmony with who you really are. Who you actually are is a beautifully amazing creator of your life – ready for all that you can dream of.

Needless to say, we’ve all been brainwashed by the mainstream mainstream ideas of our time that we need to work for long periods to acquire worthiness. You are not alone in feeling low self-esteem. I recommend you start with some silent time that’s devoted to simply self-love. Think of the ways that you love to treat yourself. Those ‘treats’ don’t have to include tons of extra calories or spending exorbatant sums of money. How about a luxurious bubble bath with fragrance and candles? Take a whole day and do things just for nobody else but you. Self-care is a fantastic way to get back in touch with your inner guidance, that now tiny voice. When you feel well, you exude your natural essence. And you create what you want when you feel self-actualized.

We focus on this and pry into the issue of self-confidence in my FREE Video The #1 Secret to Finding and Keeping the Love of Your Dreams.

You can learn more secrets to relationship attraction in my FREE VIDEO from the new DVD, “7 Secrets to Find and Keep the Love of Your Dreams.” Just go to http://www.loveofyourdreams.com

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How To Win Her Back – With A Few Solid Psychological Tactics

Maybe you’ve recently split up and you want her back. Discover how to win her back with a few psychological tactics. A few people may frown on the use of tactics like these, but who cares what they think. The important thing is to win her back.

Most people are blind to it but we are manipulated almost every day by psychological tactics. The whole world is at it in some form or other, two big culprits are governments and the advertising industry. A typical example is the employee of the month. Employers are using psychological mind games to increase production.

Get her to call you without asking
This is how it goes. We nearly all love receiving letters, as long as they aren’t bills. So you write her a nice handwritten note and tell her you want to thank her. And tell her that things are good for you right now.

This note she received will raise her curiosity levels and also a bit of pride will kick in. She’s curious as to why you want to thank her, and then pride kicks in because you’ve thanked her. We all love being thanked. She will be curious enough to call you. She needs to know why you would thank her. Of course the reason you say is that the split has down you the world of good.

The only reason for sending the letter is to make her call you back. You can play this so she actually thinks you got back together because she called you. See, you never once in the letter asked her to call you. But the letter did its job and she called anyway.

Later I can show you how to get yourself the exact letter to send. And some other tricks like this.

Play on her good memories
We all have treasured memories. You can exploit these memories to your advantage. If for instance you know what her all time fav song is, you can use this. Food and smells are good as well.

When she calls after you send the letter make sure she can just about hear her fav song in the background. In the back of her mind when she thinks of that song she thinks of the most recent time she heard it, that was on the phone to you. Linking her fav song with you then transfers some of the good stuff she feels about the song to you.

Make her a bit jealous & curious
This is where you start to go out with friends and you make sure you have a great time. More importantly try to wangle it so your ex knows you were out having fun.

Don’t go out on a 1 to 1 date as this may well scare her off completely. But a friends night out will make her feel a bit jealous as she was left out. She will expect you to be still mourning her but here she finds you out & about enjoying yourself. This can work by making her feel she should be part of the fun.

These few tactics are just some of the many things you can use to win her back. Some people may frown on them but it’s not like you are going to hypnotise her and steal her away. But using these tips on their own will likely lead nowhere.

You need to be using them as part of an overall master plan to win her back. Without a decent system to follow chances are you will just screw the whole job up.

You can find out what I think are the best couple of all round systems that will show you exactly how to win her back at my website …

MakeupNotBreakup.com

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