Confidence and Creating A Relationship
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Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Advisor , writes… …
Life Coaching for people with self-confidence or self-esteem problems is extremely helpful in answering this following question. Women seem to suffer mostly from self-esteem, abandonment and lack of feelings of being worthy problems. Life Coaching for Women is one way to solve this issue in relationship coaching. Anita asks: “Are some people just destined to be lonely forever”? Anita, considering the fact that you responded to our survey about relationships and the Law of Attraction, I’m going to assume you have been thinking about finding a relationship for you. There are many who choose to stay away from intimate relationships. And that need not be the case for a person who has stopped after they have continuously failed in the past. Nothing at all is wrong with preferring to be without a serious relationship. Your life can be fulfilled and wonderful with any choice you end up with.
As long as you know you’re choosing that instead of giving up out of frustration that you haven’t created the love of a lifetime. You can acquire it all in a relationship and in life.
If you could view yourself from the point of view of Source or your Inner Being, or Higher Self, you would see a beautiful, magnificent, illuminated, connected entity. Then life starts to happen around us. Our well-meaning parents, teachers, and elders, in an attempt to guide us, tell us from birth what to watch out for, warn us, caution us, and try to protect us, effectively having us listen to their fears and insecurities instead of tuning in to our own guidance. OK, I will give you as brand new creatures we do need protection. Fine. But soon following they learn to function by themselves, self-actualization should be part of the training for the little ones.
Well-meaning guides desire to do the correct thing so they guide, caution, admonish, and scare young ones to make them behave. This only underscores an underlying insecurity and inability. The sensation of not-enoughness gets engraved at an early age.
Neurological research now tells us that until the age of 7, we are so open and receptive, we have no filtering ability at all. We walk around in a kind of hypnagogic trance and become amazed with whatever happens to enter our life experience. It is not a wonder we have deeply ingrained, although misguided, beliefs about an imperfect nature. By the time we’re 6 years old, we’ve listened to the word “NO” approximately 60,000 times. Look out for that, that could hurt you, be careful, don’t drop that. The subliminal message is you are unworthy, you cannot trust you, you do not know what you are doing, and so on.
Our parents and elders were certainly well-meaning. They only wanted our well-being. But you can see how simply we’ve been trained away from our innate beauty and brilliance.
I suggest that you go easy with yourself and let yourself have a chance. Firstly, it is not your fault. It is not even the fault of your elders. They were programmed the same way as well. You can end this prevalence of lower sense of self-worth on yourself and everyone you know. You deserve to have everything you wants.
Do your very best to lavish yourself appreciation and self-acceptance. Adhere to yourself as you would a beloved child. Forgive her for her shortcomings. The reality is, the Universe adores, Spirit adores you, and your Inner Being adores you. Why? Because you ARE adorable. And that IS the reality!













